‘Am I a Shrill, Controlling Harpy or Is My Best Friend a User?’
Intimacy and trust require strong boundaries and clear requests.
Marina (1961) by Helen Lundeberg
Even writing that title makes me feel like a piece of shit but when I go over it in my mind, this is the question that it appears to boil down to.
I have been friends with my best friend for over ten years. Initially, we were dating but for various reasons it didn't work out and we decided to stay friends inste…