'Am I in Love or Do I Just Want to Be Her?'
Pay close attention to these feelings and you'll learn a lot.
Poppies (1987) by Dorothea Tanning
First off, thank you so much. As a terminal perfectionist who's desperately trying to cultivate a life of little wonders and delight, your advice always hits home.
Now, I've got something tricky to ask you about:
I keep falling in love with people who I admire. It's a problem because I can't tell if I want THEM…