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'Am I The Crazy One?'

It's time to turn your back on shame and trust your instincts instead.

Heather Havrilesky
Oct 13, 2022
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Sunset, Long Island (1939) by Georgia O’Keeffe

(Update: The comments on this one are heated and insightful and include a thoughtful response from the LW herself, so make sure to read them!)

Dear Polly,

Your last two columns about conflict avoidance have sent me into a questioning/ doubt spiral.

Two weeks ago someone that I've been dating on and off for a ye…

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