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'Can I Claw Back What I've Lost?'

'Can I Claw Back What I've Lost?'

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Heather Havrilesky
Aug 28, 2023
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Untitled (1970) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

I am 41. Three years ago, I was a successful person with a master's degree who had a steady job in the UK. (My entire working life post-college was spent in the UK.) I had a relationship and a friend group and hobbies. I also had a chronic pain issue that entire time, and all the doctors told me it was untrea…

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