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Can You Stop?

If you can’t be interrupted, you’re missing out.

Heather Havrilesky
Nov 10, 2025
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Les liens du sang (1960), Jane Graverol

For the past three weeks, I’ve been painting the interior walls of my house. I originally planned to pay my brother to paint my house. But my brother is a perfectionist — a slow, deliberate perfectionist — so mostly he’s been sanding, patching, and caulking. After a few days of this, I started rolling walls without…

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