'Emotionally Unavailable Men Are My Kink!'

Some people spend most of their lives avoiding their lives.

Artist, Flowers, and Hemispheres (1934) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

I’ve read your column for years — The Awl, New York magazine — and now I’m getting more help from you than ever because I’m actually at a point where I can heed your advice, take it slower, not act so impulsively (most of the time), and think about the advice I summon from different so…