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'Happiness Makes Me Feel Like a Sellout!'

Authenticity and purity aren't contingent on suffering.

Heather Havrilesky
Aug 25, 2021
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Chama River, Ghost Ranch (1937) by Georgia O’Keeffe

Dear Polly,

Today my therapist suggested I get tested for ADHD and consider medication, and I'm freaking out.

I'm in my mid-20s, and although I think of myself as an anxious and relatively unhappy person, I've built myself a life which seems both objectively and subjectively pretty good and, most exciting…

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