'How Can I Stay with a Husband Who Likes to Keep Things Simple and Cheerful?'

Sometimes trying to solve the problem of your marriage turns your marriage into more of a problem.

Portrait of Inez (1933) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

I love your work. I have followed you for years and feel so often that you are articulating my thoughts. You are a guide I return to time and again, and I appreciate you so much for sharing yourself with strangers. At times you have changed the course of my life and I wish I could hug you for it.

I ide…