'How Much Should I Hide?'

When you accept your contradictory, conflicted self, you make room for love.

The Green Apple (1922) by Georgia O’Keeffe

People often ask me how much of themselves they should hide. I encountered this question a few times this week, but it was best expressed in this comment from Tara at the end of Monday’s column. I know it starts with a compliment, but that question comes into play later, so bear with me!

You have such a gift, Pol…