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‘I Am So Extremely Embarrassed by My Entire Life!’

Humiliation is a hazard of writing. The payoff is learning not to hide who you are.

Heather Havrilesky
Mar 24, 2021
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Jane Reed and Dora Hunt (1941) by Clarence Holbrook Carter

Dear Polly,

I am so extremely embarrassed by my entire life, and I’m worried that I will spend the rest of my life hiding myself from the world because I hate feeling vulnerable. 

I’ve been writing since I was a child, and I never minded when people read what I wrote. I loved my writing and I was p…

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