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Polly, your columns - amazing on their own - are, I'm finding, also great as a complement to therapy and related work. I have spoken with several people including my therapist about one of your recent columns about shame and forgiveness. Thank you.

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Susan Coyne's avatar

To the LW: having also moved abroad twice in my late teens and early twenties, I think people really underestimate how disruptive and difficult that can be. And also as someone who also experienced abusive behavior as a child, it takes years to be able to encounter yourself in a loving way and really apprehend your own innocence. Because thinking of yourself as “innocent” feels wrong, since we as a society think that abuse and illness only happen to people who somehow “deserve” it. But I have truly high hopes for you. You’re so self aware. You’re starting on this path relatively early in life at 25. I believe that you’ll be freer over the months and years with the advice that Polly dispensed. Rooting for you.

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