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'I Need a True Friend!'

'I Need a True Friend!'

Reciprocity can be hard to find.

Heather Havrilesky
Feb 14, 2023
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The Marshes (1950) by Helen Lundeberg

Polly,

I’m so tired. I am a deeply sensitive person and I’m sick of desperately waiting for friends and acquaintances to remember I exist, to ask about my feelings, to share in my triumphs and comfort me when I’m sad. No matter how close I have felt to various friends in the past, it simply never feels reciprocated.

I …

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