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'I Never Visit My Parents and I Don't Want to Feel Guilty About It!'

Because you're incredibly sensitive, caring deeply sometimes feel like erasure.

Heather Havrilesky
Dec 19, 2023
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Blue Sky (1966) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

While reading your column last week about the woman haunted by the memory of her ex-boyfriend, I had the strange experience of recognizing myself not as the letter writer, but as the jittery specter of her relationship past. Truth be told, I was not trying to get called out like that by your (very good) guida…

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