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'I'm Obsessed With My Boyfriend’s Evil Ex-Girlfriend — And Her Blog! And Their Dogs!'
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'I'm Obsessed With My Boyfriend’s Evil Ex-Girlfriend — And Her Blog! And Their Dogs!'

You're focusing on a stranger in order to avoid focusing on yourself.

Heather Havrilesky
Jan 21, 2022
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Pink Moon Over Water (1924) by Georgia O’Keeffe

This Ask Polly originally ran on January 22, 2014 on The Awl. It’s pretty goddamn good though, if I do say so myself — and truly a testament to the fact that you can be incredibly wise about the pointlessness of obsession and still… become obsessed yet again! Because obsession is just the ticket, whether yo…

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