‘I'm Ready for Love But I Don't Know How to Start!’

Vulnerability requires surrender. Surrender takes practice. You start by savoring your conflicted, greedy soul.

Sunflower Landscape (1943) by Dorothea Tanning

Dear Polly,

I, a cis woman in my late 20s, come here as a longtime reader of your column. Thank you for everything you do.

I'm writing to you because I feel that while most parts of my life are good, there's one that's really not: I so want to have an active dating life that eventually leads me to love and par…