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'I've Only Dated Jerks!'

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'I've Only Dated Jerks!'

Notice how much fear comes up when you say yes. Notice how much guilt comes up when you say no.

Heather Havrilesky
Oct 19, 2023
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Blue View (1974) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

When my last serious relationship ended I was 50. I just didn't want another one. I am far too easy going and don't get mad at all for the longest time.

But when I do get mad it's game over, get out don't come back, don't call, don't even think of me, I am done.

I tried to think my way out of that reflex but t…

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