'I've Only Dated Jerks!'

Notice how much fear comes up when you say yes. Notice how much guilt comes up when you say no.

Blue View (1974) by Helen Lundeberg

Dear Polly,

When my last serious relationship ended I was 50. I just didn't want another one. I am far too easy going and don't get mad at all for the longest time.

But when I do get mad it's game over, get out don't come back, don't call, don't even think of me, I am done.

I tried to think my way out of that reflex but t…