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'Men My Age Don't Like Me!'

Break apart your self-limiting assumptions, if only for the sake of your joy.

Heather Havrilesky
Oct 11, 2023
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Sea (1970) by Helen Lundeberg

Hi Polly!

So, let’s jump to the point, I’m 45. I’m single. I’ve had two romantic relationships ships and the last one ended 15 years ago.

When I got dumped after 10 years because I’m not the type of girl someone marries (direct quote), I put all the energy I put into my partner back into myself. I went back to school. Got a ma…

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