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Mining The Ruins

Your lowest moments, filled with sadness, alienation, disappointment, and longing, are precious resources in the wider story of your life.

Heather Havrilesky
Feb 12, 2023
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In the Wilderness (1952) by Helen Lundeberg

This perfect profile of SZA by Danyel Smith made me cry three times on Saturday morning before I was even out of bed. But at first I’ll admit that I was unsettled by all of the active verbs:

The world’s deepest ocean appears on your left, a vast and breathing GIF. Moons charm bloodstreams, and dolphins model for…

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