No, Self-Help Won't Make You a Jerk!
Never listen to anyone who thinks that self-improvement is inherently selfish. Cultivating firm boundaries and celebrating your desires will make you more loving and generous, not less.
The Celestial Prison (1963), Jane Graverol
“Is Today’s Self-Help Teaching Everyone To Be a Jerk?” asks this morning’s New York Times. As usual, the article itself is far less extreme than the headline. But people today have a special propensity for weaponizing headlines (and oversimplified takes) and wielding them against each other. So let’s acknowledge…
