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Passion Requires Slow Cultivation

Forget divine blasts of inspiration and fantasies of specialness. A slow slog toward mastery has unmatched gifts that you won't recognize until you commit.

Heather Havrilesky
Dec 07, 2023
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Seashore (1969) by Helen Lundeberg

Many of the passions we pursue serve functions we don’t understand. We think that we’re seeking a new kind of life, a new kind of identity. We want to become a new kind of person — a better, more impressive, more fulfilled, more attractive human. But it’s often the side effects or even the mechanics of these pursuits th…

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