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'People Always Think I'm Insulting Them When I'm Just Having a Laugh!'

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Heather Havrilesky
Mar 04, 2025
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Witnesses (1947), Dorothea Tanning

Hi Polly,

What advice do you have for a woman who constantly gets feedback that they’re too honest and blunt?

I never have bad intentions and always think I’m indulging in a bit of banter with people until I register their facial expressions and body language and realize I’ve said something wrong. Or, even worse, I hear l…

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