'We're Fighting More Than Ever!'

Real intimacy will kick up your fears and insecurities like never before.

Red and Orange Streak (1919) by Georgia O’Keeffe

Dear Polly,

My partner and I are in rut. We have been stable for several years, but are now fighting more than ever. Although I hate our arguments, it's become clear that the bigger issue is that we don't know how to fight well. We've been working on this in therapy, but progress has been slow. All that mon…