'When Will My Terrible Ex Apologize?'

Stop fixating on the impossible and find beauty in what's real instead.

The Black Place (1943) by Georgia O’Keeffe

Hi Polly!

I've enjoyed your advice column for years, and your book has given me a lot of solace (and a few tears) especially over the past year while parsing my divorce. Guess what I'm about to ask you about?

When my ex and I married, we were deeply in love. He was The One, full stop. There didn't seem to be an up…