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Who Do You Love?

On the importance of knowing who matters the most to you.

Heather Havrilesky
May 08, 2023
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Fruit in Space (1953) by Helen Lundeberg

It’s rare to talk about friendships in terms of feeling. We’re more likely to explain where we met someone, how our paths crossed, what we’ve done together over the years. In mentioning a friend to another friend, you might say, “You’ll love her!” or “He’s the best!” But do you ever say something truly passionate,…

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