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Dana's avatar

"a constant focus on self-improvement has a tendency to erode your self-esteem and turn you into a neurotic, approval-seeking mess"

*looks frantically around for the hidden camera that must obviously be in my apartment*

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Myro's avatar

I love this so much. However, reading this I realised that I've hit the "stop constantly trying to improve and following unrealistic expectations about yourself" level, but am still far from actually reaching the "enjoy who you are and every moment of your life" level. So basically I've accepted myself for who I am, but I'm not satisfied with it; instead I'm just resigned and apathetic -- essentially no guilt and yet no joy. Anything that can be done about that?

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