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Streetsoup48's avatar

The answer is simple. Stop giving a fuck about “deciding” what you really want and the answer will come. It’s the deciding part that is giving you the pain, not the wanting part.

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kcatmull's avatar

oof I can't begin to say how much I needed to hear this today. And I have books out from big publishers! it never fucking ends, in other words, but you gotta press on! But I do want to add: I would be so so so much better of a writer now if I had followed my desperate need to write when I was your age instead of finally giving in at 41. I would also have saved myself ten years of being plagued with severe, sometimes disabling panic disorder in my 30s, which only went away WHEN I STARTED TO WRITE. Start now. Write and write and write, it's the only way to get better. Thinking about writing is not writing; only writing is writing.

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