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'I'm Addicted to Feeling Miserable!'

Stop blaming yourself for your depression and start giving yourself exactly what you need to feel good.

Heather Havrilesky
Sep 16, 2024
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Dear Polly,

I've been consuming your work religiously. I read all your books and binge-read your Substack (a hobby I don't regret).

However, I've been having many thoughts lately concerning how having a hobby may be a sign of privilege (and, by extension, shame). I find it difficult to focus solely on my uni work (the mo…

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