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E. Jean Carroll's avatar

CLASSIC HEATHER HAVRILESKY:

"Or rather, marriage is a booze cruise that runs out of liquor and then runs out of food and then runs out of water and then runs straight into a tropical storm and crashes onto a rocky island and everyone swims for the shore and gasps for air on the beach and then BLAMES EVERYONE ELSE FOR EVERYTHING EVERYTHING EVERYTHING!"

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OMG all of this is PURE GOLD. But specifically "To which I say: MY DUDE. Are you kidding me? Getting blamed for shit that’s not your fault is the bread and butter of marriage. What did you think you were signing up for here, a low-interest credit card? A booze cruise? Marriage isn’t a fucking booze cruise!"

My ex-husband was like this...he eventually said "I have nothing left to give you" which honestly made me laugh because I kept thinking but actually you never gave me anything..because I understood on a basic level that he couldn't so I never asked.

LW trust your family on this one...yes families are often wrong about opinions of spouses etc. But a crisis reveals people like nothing else. Say good-bye, go to therapy and find yourself a real dude.

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