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Gemma Lacey's avatar

As always here with the gold: “ listen to how confused people can get when they’re all wrapped up in other people’s problems, to the point where other people’s drama becomes a form of escape from their own lives.”

Or as my good friend Nathan said to me you’re an excellent fire fighter doesn’t mean you need to date a human flame thrower.

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Suzette's avatar

I have often confused the ability to say my piece with my need to be heard. LW say it out loud and if you know there is a chance you will not be heard, it will make it easier to stay calm and not inject the hurt into what you have to say. But also, find a friend who you can tell all the mean things that are in your head right now and who will laugh and help you feel normal.

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