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JO's avatar
Jan 16Edited

I'm struggling a bit to read this. I'm in the process of recovering from what I now recognize was an emotionally abusive relationship. I used logic like this to defend his actions, reminding myself that he's stressed, sad, and going through a lot of tough changes. I used that to justify his outbursts that would often include the most hurtful comments about me, my character, and my friends and family. I feel like these exchanges were so insidious at first, then more intense, where I didn't realize the extent to which I'd been left completely exhausted with my self esteem on the ground.

How do you know the line? I don't even know how I got here, and I don't want to be here again.

I also want to say that if someone in your life is the "artist type" but they leave you feeling like garbage with their emotional reactivity, you do not have to stay in that situation <3

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Laura Mikels's avatar

I wanted to restack every paragraph. This was so beautiful and true and sad. “Most people have never learned to sit and cry and tell the truth.” I feel for my dad especially, reading this. Thank you for sharing.

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