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'I Moved Back Home and Now I'm Single and Depressed!'

Sadness attunes you to your values and desires.

Heather Havrilesky
Jul 14, 2026
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Les Jeux Nouveaux (1940), Yves Tanguy

Dear Polly,

I made a huge life decision that I’m panicking about.

I’m a 26-year-old woman from a small Midwestern town and have lived in big East Coast cities since 2018. In those years I attended fancy schools and met all kinds of people and my world got massively bigger. I became way more confident, made amazing frie…

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