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'Stop Blaming Women For Being Single!'
Never have, never will!
Mar 2
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'I'm a Stereotypical Single Woman Who Wants a Baby Right Now!'
You can have exactly what you want. Live like it’s already yours.
Feb 23
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What Sad Surprise Might Set You Free?
My letter to an Ask Polly reader receives an unexpected response!
Feb 19
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'My Ex Took All of Our Mutual Friends!'
If you never tell anyone how you feel, no one will respect your feelings.
Feb 16
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Heather Havrilesky
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How Do You Decide For Yourself?
When you're anxious, self-conscious, and afraid, how do you find your bearings and learn to trust yourself again?
Feb 10
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'I'm Tired and Confused and Lonely!'
Quiet your punishing mind and let the fairy inside you explore and wander without fear.
Feb 2
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'I Cheated on My Fiancée Fifteen Years Ago. The Guilt Has Ruined My Life.'
A closer look at your emotional rebellion will uncover the honorable desire to be seen clearly and loved deeply at the core of your existence.
Jan 29
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'My Open Marriage Is Killing Me!'
Two words: Get out.
Jan 28
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